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                              Welcome!

 

Many clients start therapy because they are experiencing painful symptoms or undesired life circumstances. Yet symptoms are only surface signals. Beneath them lie deeper roots—stories and patterns that repeat from the past into the present. Too often, what is passed down through generations is the minimization or denial of struggles, leaving us to carry our emotional pain alone. When these struggles remain unprocessed, they become internalized, shaping how we see ourselves, our relationships, and our life experiences.

 

Therapy is not about quick fixes. Growth is a slower, intentional process of becoming more aligned with our authentic selves and engaging in conversations about uncomfortable truths. You are the expert in your own story; my role is to walk beside you with kindness, support, feedback, and reflection. Sometimes we cannot see the familiar patterns within us, and it takes another person to help reflect what needs attention in our inner worlds. This is the heart of therapeutic work.

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All of us carry unexamined stories from childhood that shape how we enter adult relationships. When left unresolved, these themes often lead to maladaptive coping strategies that limit our potential and authenticity. Relational patterns can echo across generations, perpetuating cycles of pain. It requires genuine courage to face these stories, grieve their impact, and allow ourselves to feel the weight of loss.

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As adults, many of us have not learned to consistently practice self‑kindness, listen to our inner needs, or remain differentiated in relationships. Unprocessed trauma and negative patterns can easily become the norm. The invitation is to create a new model—one where the positive aspects of life coexist with the grief of the past. Together, we can work toward helping you step more authentically and wholeheartedly into connection with yourself and others.

Questions to Bring to Therapy:

 

  • What keeps you from being authentic with others?

  • What stories have you believed about your core-self that were actually about others?

  • How do you treat yourself when nobody else is around? ​

  • What keeps you from stepping into conflict with others?

  • Do you feel like you are too much or not enough?

  • How do your internal messages influence relationships?

  • What is the harder thing from the past that repeats in the present? ​

  • What themes do you notice yourself repeating in conversation throughout the day?​​

  • What stories from the past inform your self-worth today? 

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.” 

                                                                                Esther Perel

Marc Anderson, MA, LMHC, CMHS, MBA

Email: bluetreadts@outlook.com

Phone: 206-929-2278

Address:​ 1808 Richards Rd #105, Bellevue, WA 98005​

 

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